What is a Quinceañera? A big party for sure
I was fortunate to have recently attended my first Quinceañera. The daughter of one of our longest tenured families celebrated her 15th birthday in fine style. It was a joy to attend the Quinceañera celebration for Britzia, who has matured beyond her years in the seven years that her family have attended LHCC. Her fiesta was attended by over 225 Latino’s and this gringo.
Unlike the American “Sweet 16” celebration, Quinceañeras are celebrations for when a young woman turns 15 years young. A traditional Quinceañera comprises a celebration with both religious and social aspects. The first is the Catholic Mass, with the giving thanks to God for reaching this milestone, followed by the fiesta, or extended rest-of-the day and night party.
The Mass includes the girl's parents, godparents, and court of honor otherwise known as the damas and chambelanes. That’s Spanish for ladies and chamberlains.
The Quinceañera tradition in Mexico traces its roots back to Aztec culture, though the modern form of the celebration is a blend of indigenous and European influences. In Aztec times, a ceremony called the "quince años" marked a girl's transition into womanhood. At around age 15, she would participate in rituals signifying her ability to bear children and contribute to society. Fortunately, the modern day Quinceañera emphasizes a young woman's transition into adulthood. Last time I checked, an adult comes of age when they turn eighteen in the US., but those counting. I found out that Mississippi is the only state to set it at 21. Needless to say, the focus is less on marriage and more on family, community, and personal growth.
The modern Quinceañera celebration typically involves a large party with a formal presentation of the young woman to family and friends. The Quinceañera often wears an elaborate gown and tiara, and there may be a special Mass, elaborate waltzing with a court of honor, and other traditions.
What about the birthday gifts, you may be asking. Along with the usual stuffed animals, a Quinceañera bracelet, necklace or ring is usually given by the parents or pradinos (godparents), symbolizing the infinite circle of love from them. Both usually have the number 15 in some form and are cherished by the Quinceañera.
As a numbers guy, I couldn’t but wonder who foots the bill for this elaborate teen birthday party, or fiesta. I came to learn that it’s quite the family affair. The Godparents usually pay for most of the expenses. Alternatively, they will contribute towards, or pay for one specific thing, such as the birthday cake, a piece of jewelry, or the rather elaborate dress. Other times, they will pay the expenses for the religious part of the Quinceañera, while the parents pay for the party.
Wondering what is the average cost of a Quinceañera? Well, it can vary anywhere from $5,000 to $20,000, or more. Not bad, for a six-hour fiesta of good ol’ family fun. It was a unique experience and one I will not soon forget. So many happy people together, a real family affair.
Happy 15th birthday sweet Britzia! And many more. Creemos en ti. We believe in you.
Brent Morris
June 2024
